Why do you love Me?

Anna Piskunova
Anna Piskunova
February 27, 2015
Why do you love Me?

Love is a complex feeling. And not always we can accurately answer the question: "Why do you love me?". Perhaps because we are afraid to give out their feelings. Or maybe because it never occurred to us, for which we value a person, which we value in our relations. Probably because love is unconditional: either it is or it is not. And all the reasons in this case disappear by themselves. True, it happens in life and so when people realize that they are still attracted to this particular person with whom they decided to spend their whole lives. We will try to understand this.

What can they love for?

There is not always a deep spiritual connection between a man and a woman, which makes them practically close to each other. But, nevertheless, there are couples who have not reached this level, but consider themselves to be quite happy in love. They can admit to themselves that they value in a partner, or rather, in the subjects of his status. For example, it may be the presence of a car, a stable good income, the ability to visit expensive places,but we are unlikely to hear from such people words like: “I love you, because you get a lot!” When trying to delve into understanding such relationships, we will most likely come across rather familiar formulations from the material world. And this is also a love option for someone.

After all, for material reasons lies a lot of biological, basic for humans as for the species. This is close to the concept of comfort, and then the answer appears, like the following: “I love you because I feel good, comfortable, cozy with you! I feel secure, safe! ”

Beauty as one of the examples of external manifestations can also be a subject of love, and therefore sometimes we can hear such confessions: “I love you because you are beautiful!”.

But not all is limited to external transfers. There are many examples that appeal to the internal qualities of a person. For example: "I love you because you are interesting, successful, responsible, sexy, gallant, intelligent, wise, active, etc.". The display of interest in the inner world of another person, undoubtedly, makes him more beautiful. And still, in enumerating the qualities of a person, we think about ourselves and sometimes express our feelings through the attitude towards ourselves: “I love you because I never knew about it before!”.

But sometimes this is not about describing the outside world or passion for the psychological qualities of a partner. Love - it is somewhere higher. And it is just enough to say: “I love you, because you are!”.